What should I do? What can I do?

i cannot believe that i am reading some of these answers...thats ridiculous! "give your oldest child up" or "abort or keep the child"? what the hell is wrong with you people how could you possibly sit there and say that killing an unborn child is better than giving it a life and a family that wants a child and is in a good state to have and support a child. **** happens if you got pregnant and you know in ur heart that the father is unfit and you cant support the child then there are tons of families that cannot have children and would love to. and even if you do give in to his enabling family then the child still will not either blood parent so what is the difference. it is in the best interest of the child to have two loving parents. and giving the child up for adoption does not mean that you are putting it in an orphanage or giving it to strangers. with most good agencies you are able to have a relationship with the adoptive parents the whole pregnancy and you dont have to give the child to them until you have a family for the baby.